The Happiness Decision- Andrew Matthews on Resilience and Mindset

Episode Summary 

What if the key to happiness wasn’t in getting what you want—but in choosing how you respond when you don’t? In this episode of A Joyful Rebellion, international bestselling author and cartoonist Andrew Matthews joins us from Australia to unpack what it really means to bounce back. With over 8 million books sold in 49 languages, Andrew’s simple, illustrated messages about happiness have helped millions reframe their pain, reclaim their power, and live with more joy—even in the midst of hard times.

We explore the difference between people who move forward and those who stay stuck, why acceptance is the real first step toward healing, and how a slice of cake might be all it takes to shift your mindset. Whether you're recovering from loss, trying to find meaning in the mess, or just want to feel a little more like yourself again—this conversation is packed with insight, humor, and hope.

Show Notes & Chapters

• [00:00] Introduction: When life knocks you down, then what?

• [01:00] Meet Andrew Matthews: The decision that changed everything

• [03:00] The happiness myth—and the truth he discovered at 25

• [06:30] Rejection, risk, and the cartoon book that went global

• [08:15] What happy people have in common (hint: it’s not stuff)

• [10:45] The cake cartoon and the power of what we focus on

• [12:00] Lessons from people with “bigger problems and better attitudes”

• [14:15] Why bouncing back starts with acceptance

• [17:00] The trap of “it shouldn’t have happened”—and how to move on

• [19:00] Resilience, stoicism, and choosing how we interpret events

• [21:30] Nick Vujicic, country western songs, and perspective shifts

• [24:00] When self-help stops working—and what to do next

• [26:00] The problem with overthinking and the gift of self-awareness

• [28:00] Social media, short attention spans, and the myth of comparison

• [30:00] Decision vs. transformation: the real turning point

• [32:00] Different books for different seasons of hardship

• [34:00] Supporting people around you without pushing them

• [36:00] Being the best example—not the loudest voice

• [38:00] Real-life stories: from broke and hopeless to joyful and thriving

• [42:00] Start where you are—there’s no other place to begin

• [44:00] Where to find Andrew’s books and newsletters

• [45:00] Final thoughts and thank yous

Resources

• Andrew’s Website: andrewmatthews.com

• Books by Andrew Matthews:

  • Being Happy

  • Bouncing Back

  • Happiness in Hard Times

  • Follow Your Heart

• Audiobooks available on Audible

• Andrew’s newsletter (sign up on his website)